Many months ago, Mika wrote an article on “Dirty Harriet” (which is essentially about your inner critic). I’ve been thinking about the idea of an inner critic and insecurity a lot lately, and I really do believe that it is at the root of most relationship problems. I mean, how many times have you been [...]…
There are times you just feel like giving up. There are time where it feels like it would be so much easier to just walk away…And there are times you just want to silently sob until the tight feeling in the back of your throat goes away. Don’t worry, I’ve been there too. I’ve almost [...]…
Have you ever told yourself “Someday I’ll get around to it”? Maybe you were thinking about telling your partner how much they meant to you. Maybe you were trying to plan a romantic get-away. Or break that habit you’ve got of losing your temper and starting an argument. Maybe you’ve watched your relationship slowly slide [...]…
Hey this is Mika! I know I’ve been MIA for a while, but a debilitating cold can render you into a human-shaped blob on your bed for days. Clay’s been hogging the spotlight for the past few posts (he does that with the blankets at night too!). But I thought I’d share something that’s been [...]…
It’s Mika again! I hope you had a Merry Christmas, a Happy Hanukkah, a fantastic Kwanzaa and a joyful Festivus. New Years is just around the corner and it’s that time of the year to reflect on all that’s happened in the past year. Clay and I have had so many changes in 2011. This [...]…
This is Clay. Here’s a story from my past that maybe you can relate to and a few bits of advice on how to deal with loneliness. I remember back in 2006 after a 7 year relationship ended once and for all. I went through the usual break up emotions of depression, desperation, and that [...]…
